If you desire to move through your grief and find joy – if you are wanting to understand and heal your grief – if you want to find new purpose and happiness in your life – it is important for you to consider essential grief pain avoidance rivers. You may learn they cannot be avoided.
Life Is Like A River
Life is like a river; time is like a river. You cannot touch the water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again. Your personal grief and sorrow are like a river. As much as you wish, it is not possible to have your old life back. Your old life has flowed down stream and of necessity it is vital that you deal with the new you. Enjoying every moment of one’s life is a challenge. Some of life experiences are unwanted, often unexpected.
How To Avoid Pain Of Heart, Mind And Body
Honestly to avoid pain of the heart, mind or physical pain is impossible. Pain avoidance although pursued may be elusive. Happiness and peace may dwindle when certain circumstances come into your life. As tragedy and heartbreak come into your life the HOW and WHAT questions can become exaggerated. You ask: How can I best deal with my sorrow? What shall I do now? In reality you are asking yourself for solutions to overcome your pain.
Beneficial Grief Pain Avoidance Rivers
Grief pain results from a multiplicity of sources. Sorrow comes from an assortment of complicated happenings. To say the least – they are often complicated – causing you to feel torn apart and helpless. There are healing rivers available essential for you to travel. They can be dreaded “Pain Avoidance Rivers”. They help your personal healing journey. These rivers can act as reconciling solutions to the grief you feel. These rivers can help you better understand your grief.
Dread River
Saying no to fear, anxiety and dread is timely as you are reminded how fragile life is. Each of us must ride this river at some time in our life. Some ride this river daily spending every moment of their lives trying to eke out a meager living or to find enough food to get through the day. Many are denied freedom; others struggle with chronic disease, pain, addiction, abuse or neglect. It saddens me to think of the many, throughout our world, who struggle with deep depression. Many people are lonely; some are literally all alone in the world. There is also much grief experienced, after divorces, accidents, or following serious medical diagnoses. Many have lived through the ravages of war and other unspeakable atrocities. We must not forget the military personnel – the wounded warriors – and those who experience post-traumatic stress disorder. The thought of saying no to fear can help you step through your fears – now – to be who you were born to be. To take a forward step into the dark path you cannot see takes courage.
Bereavement River
There is much grief experienced, after the loss of a loved one. You (and everyone who loved him/her) feel the loss of his/her presence here on planet Earth. Without the person you love causes great sorrow. The bereavement river has taken someone precious away. How to build a new life requires time.
Lonesome River
There are times when loneliness enters your life. But to be all alone is indeed a sorrowful tragedy. There are steps you can take to overcome being literally alone. It takes courage. Some must examine why their romance and companionship efforts have failed. New strategies may be the solution.
Amputation River
The loss of a limb is a horrific experience. It is permanent. Amputation is life changing. How life changing is dependent on the severity and your attitude. We never cease to be amazed at the resilience of the human soul. So much of happiness in life depends on you.
Tragedy River
One never knows when tragedy may strike. Tragedy for one is not for another. Often happenings in life are measured by your individual ability to cope. Nevertheless, heartache and serious issues do raise an ugly intolerable head. This river like all rivers ebbs and flows. How you travel it is up to you.
So, today’s article on “Grief Pain Avoidance Rivers” is a declaration – a reminder – of how important it is to move forward despite any fear you may have without fear of traveling the rivers of grief and pain of the heart, mind and body. You are stronger than you think. Seek the companionship of others who will travel your rivers with you. Don’t be alone. It is very important, in fact, essential you be honest with yourself about what caused and what your grief is. As hard as it may appear you must not only face your grief but you must journey on your grief river. You can.
